I absolute think it’s a bad idea and. My boyfriend and I don’t speak to our exes. And we especially don’t talk about them unless we ask.
My honest opionin is that he doesn’t have his mind completely focused on you if he’s able to comfortably speak about his ex to you about how amazing she is and blah blah blah. I think you should do whatever you want, but have a honest conversation first with him. See where he stands with you emotionally and if he’s serious at all.
Hope this helps!
You are such a sweetheart. Thank you (: My day in itself was alright, but I’m honestly going through internal/emotional stuff. Thank you for your encouragement!
Oh…. So THAT must be awkward! And idk, I still say it’s a good thing to respect their space. But that is definitely hella shady of her ._.
I’m not going :P I know what it’s like to be pushed and shoved and blah blah blah. Not worth my time, honestly. I’m sure people go for the experience and the fun of it all, but I don’t care about it enough to wanna drop hella money all the time to go to events. People should be buying their momma’s something nice instead haha.
You could totally enjoy your music! Just attend smaller venues or 1 day events, not massives (:
Befriend him. You never want to be the side chick or the supposed “homewrecker”. A friend could be just as helpful to him right now (: Talk to him, catch up! If feelings continue to develop again, I’m sure things will fall into place.
But also remember that the other girl may be sensitive to you so be cautious of that.
Hope this helps!
You don’t owe him anything. Being together over a year doesn’t means that you should be having sex already. You aren’t ready so leave it at that. Don’t even think that you “might as well” either.
I can understand why he’s frustrated, but it’s your body and you should use it the way you want to. He needs to respect that. When you ARE ready is when you want to experience it. Not when you’re nervous and uncomfortable and scared. It could easily be a traumatic situation for you.
Hope this helps! And stand strong.
We’ve officially reached that annoying time of year where it’s sweater weather in the morning, but by midday you die from a heatstroke.